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I Can't Save You: A Memoir

Anthony Chin-Quee
3.73/5 (366 ratings)
The raw and gripping memoir of a Black physician who confronts his past mistakes and relationships as he learns to find his own path forward

At first glance, Anthony Chin-Quee looks like a traditional success: a smart, ambitious kid who grew up to become a board-certified otolaryngologist—an ear, nose, and throat surgeon. Yet the truth is more complicated.
 
As a self-described “not white, mostly Black, and questionably Asian man,” Chin-Quee knows that he doesn’t fit easily into any category. Growing up in a family with a background of depression, he struggled with relationships, feelings of inadequacy, and a fear of failure that made it difficult for him to forge lasting bonds with others.
 
To repair that, he began his own unflinching examination of what it means to be both a physician and a Black man today. What saved him and his sanity was not medicine. By sharing stories from his life and career, Chin-Quee learned how powerful the truth can be in helping to forgive yourself and others as you chart a new way forward.

By turns harrowing and hilarious, honest and human, I Can’t Save You is the fascinating true story of how looking within can change you and your life for the better.

Contents

Prologue 1

Chin-Quee, M.D. 3

A-Side—Success* 42

B-Side—The Fall 80

You 160

Fear of Flying 176

Rainbow Connection 212

Y'ain't (k)no(w) 222

Fatherhood 285

Eulogy 334

Acknowledgments  353
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ISBN10:
0593418883
ISBN13:
9780593418888
kindle Asin:
B0B5SQNMS7

I Can't Save You: A Memoir

Anthony Chin-Quee
3.73/5 (366 ratings)
The raw and gripping memoir of a Black physician who confronts his past mistakes and relationships as he learns to find his own path forward

At first glance, Anthony Chin-Quee looks like a traditional success: a smart, ambitious kid who grew up to become a board-certified otolaryngologist—an ear, nose, and throat surgeon. Yet the truth is more complicated.
 
As a self-described “not white, mostly Black, and questionably Asian man,” Chin-Quee knows that he doesn’t fit easily into any category. Growing up in a family with a background of depression, he struggled with relationships, feelings of inadequacy, and a fear of failure that made it difficult for him to forge lasting bonds with others.
 
To repair that, he began his own unflinching examination of what it means to be both a physician and a Black man today. What saved him and his sanity was not medicine. By sharing stories from his life and career, Chin-Quee learned how powerful the truth can be in helping to forgive yourself and others as you chart a new way forward.

By turns harrowing and hilarious, honest and human, I Can’t Save You is the fascinating true story of how looking within can change you and your life for the better.

Contents

Prologue 1

Chin-Quee, M.D. 3

A-Side—Success* 42

B-Side—The Fall 80

You 160

Fear of Flying 176

Rainbow Connection 212

Y'ain't (k)no(w) 222

Fatherhood 285

Eulogy 334

Acknowledgments  353
Format:
Pages:
pages
Publication:
Publisher:
Edition:
Language:
ISBN10:
0593418883
ISBN13:
9780593418888
kindle Asin:
B0B5SQNMS7